Dating Roster

Intentional Matchmaking and Experiences

Real matchmaking, by a real person, for people who are done with the apps.

Dating Roster

Intentional Matchmaking and Experiences

Intentional matchmaking means every introduction is made based on your lifestyle, your interests, and your goals; most importantly, your ideals and your nonnegotiables. I connect people based on compatibility. You show up and see if there’s chemistry.

The members are intentional: they’ve decided they want a real relationship and are willing to wait for the right fit.

The process is intentional: every connection starts with healthy boundaries, managed expectations, and a strong foundation.

Whether you’re looking for something romantic or something more casual, the goal is the same: to find the person you’d enjoy life with and, if it’s right, build a life with.

Confidentiality matters to me, and it’s built into this process. Not everyone wants the world knowing they’re looking for connection. So skip the apps and consider working with a matchmaker.

I look forward to meeting you and learning more about what you’re looking for.

With Gratitude,

Justina

Justina Lisi

Matchmaker and Coach

WHY THE ROSTER EXISTS

You've done the apps. You've gone on the dates that went nowhere. You've explained yourself to strangers a hundred times and still felt unseen.
The Dating Roster was born from my desire to connect people in a deeper way. I'm building a community of singles who want an intentional dating experience, and as I get to know each of you, I'm inspired to find that missing piece in your life that will complement and bring a deeper sense of love and community.
No swiping. 
No algorithms. 
No wasted time. 
Just one person who wants to get to know you and work towards finding your person.

HOW IT WORKS

A man with gray hair sitting at a wooden desk, talking to a woman on a laptop screen during a video call. The desk has plants, notebooks, a water bottle labeled 'Postmates,' and a pen. Large windows with natural light and green plants are in the background.

On Boarding Call

We start with a real conversation - a full 60 minutes where I learn your story, your values, your lifestyle, and what you're truly looking for. This is the foundation on which everything else is built.
A man in a dark jacket talking on a cellphone, sitting outdoors at sunset, with a city skyline and water in the background.

Curated introductions

When I find someone who genuinely fits, I make the introduction. Quality over quantity, always.  You both are briefed on each other and agree to meet.  I will organize the first 3 dates.
Two people exchanging coffee mugs across a white table with a dark vase containing dried flowers in front of a window.

Rules

Meeting someone new is always nerve-racking, and that is why I created rules to go on a date with healthy boundaries and managed expectations.  This creates a low-pressure, enjoyable experience for you to get to know each other.

The Dating Roster Membership

Be apart of the foundation of something amazing. Once I have reached certain goals and values, the price will increase. Sign up today!

NEW YORK - FLX/STNY

For singles ready to date with intention.

$150 onboarding (one-time)

  • 60-minute personal onboarding call

  • Your member profile

  • Curated, hand-picked introductions

  • Invitations to member meet-ups & events

TAMPA BAY/SARASOTA

For singles ready to date with intention.

$150 onboarding (one-time)

  • 60-minute personal onboarding call

  • Your member profile

  • Curated, hand-picked introductions

  • Invitations to member meet-ups & events

But first, lets set up a quick 15 minute call to see if the Roster is right for you.

information Request Form

Once I receive your request I will contact you at my earliest convenience.

Your person isn't on an app. Let's go find them.

Upcoming Experiences

Frequently Asked Questions

  • We schedule your 60-minute onboarding call. Once you are in the system I will reach out when I have someone I would like you to meet!

  • There's no set number, and that's by design. I only introduce you when I find someone I genuinely believe fits. You'll never be flooded with matches to make the membership feel "active."

  • That's the whole point! You can pause or end your membership anytime, and you’re welcome to stay in the community and events.

  • Currently, there are no membership dues, but when there are… Yes.! Every membership can be paused and reinstated with no term limits.

  • Not unless you want to! There's no pressure to participate in anything. Your comfort and your standards come first, always.

  • The community is rooted in the Finger Lakes region, Southern Tier, Northern PA, and Florida. The more of us there are, the deeper the pool. Tell your single friends.