The Dating Roster

FLX • STNY

Matchmaking • Dating Coach • Events

Real matchmaking, by a real person, for people who are done with the apps.

Schedule a 15 minute call to learn if the Dating Roster is right for you.

You've done the apps. You've gone on the dates that went nowhere. You've explained yourself to strangers a hundred times and still felt unseen.
The Dating Roster was born from my desire to connect people in a deeper way. I'm building a community of singles who want an intentional dating experience, and as I get to know each of you, I'm inspired to find that missing piece in your life that will complement and bring a deeper sense of love and community.

WHY THE ROSTER EXISTS

 I'll be honest with you, because that's how I do everything here: this is a long game. You're not going to meet someone through me overnight. But you will be known, supported, and introduced only to quality matches. You will never be bombarded with date requests, and there's never pressure to participate in anything that doesn't feel right for you
No swiping. 
No algorithms. 
No wasted time. 
Just one person who wants to get to know you and work towards finding your person.

HOW IT WORKS

We start with a real conversation, a full 60 minutes where I learn your story, your values, your lifestyle, and what you're truly looking for.  Here is where we choose which membership is best for you.

Your onboarding call

Every month we talk. A short call/zoom to see how you're feeling, what's changed, and what you're learning about yourself. Your search stays active, and you stay supported.

Our check-ins

Curated introductions

When I find someone who genuinely fits, I make the introduction. Quality over quantity, always.

Memberships

ESSENTIAL

For singles ready to date with intention.

$150 onboarding (one-time) + $45/month

  • 60-minute personal onboarding call

  • Your member profile

  • Monthly check-in calls with me

  • Curated, hand-picked introductions

  • Invitations to member meet-ups & events

Save with a package

(includes onboarding fee)

  • 3 months · $228 - save $57

  • 6 months · $336 - save $84

Essential Membership fees WAIVED til 2027!

PREMIER Most supported

For singles ready to grow into their next relationship.

$150 onboarding (one-time) + $90/month

  • Everything in Essential, plus:

  • Monthly one-on-one coaching session: mindset, confidence, and dating with clarity

  • Member pricing on premium experiences: retreats, travel & VIP events

  • Early access to event registration

Save with a package

(includes onboarding fee)

  • 3 months · $336 - save $104

  • 6 months · $552 - save $138

We recommend three months; meaningful matching takes time.
Life happens: every membership can be paused and reinstated or canceled.

  • Justina, First, I wanted to share how excited I am for the Dating Roster. As a middle aged woman it’s hard to meet new people. We have had the limited choices of the non vetted apps or crossing our fingers and hoping we meet that special someone in a bar or the grocery store. The more people I talk to the more that they say this service is what is needed in our area and it such a great thing you do! I have a few singles varying in ages interested in the program and I hope to get signed up soon. Secondly, my overall experience has been great! Unfortunately I missed movie night and pottery class which is are awesome ideas for likeminded singles. My first event that I attended was a casual get together of a variety of singles at an adorable venue. You worked with us as a group to introduce ourselves and provided ice breaker questions to see who have similar interests or interesting things about that person. Then as all the singles conversed you took the time to check-in and was attentive to each single who was struggling (Hint: ME lol). By the end of the evening I felt I left with maybe a friend or 2. It was a great first experience for me and I can’t wait for the next event! Third, Justina…You are just awesome! Our initial one on one meeting you took the time to get to know me and what I was looking for in a special partner. You kept in contact and really tried to get to know me the person and not just the basic statistics of the apps. I’m looking forward to my individual date once you find that special someone that may be right for me. I am excited about the service you are providing. You are putting all your effort into finding new singles, creating events to bring us together to mingle and managing to maintain connections with all the members. You are providing the service that I have been needing for years. Thank you so much for taking the leap and creating the Dating Roster!

  • Hi Justina,

    Thank you so much for all that you have been doing with the Dating Roster. I attended my first event, and I really had a great time. Choosing a venue that's relaxed and comfortable is great, and the icebreakers really did help.

    You definitely have a variety of people as members, and I'm sure that will only grow over time!

    This is so much more reliable and trustworthy than online dating, and it's a lot more comfortable than trying to go out and "find" people in random places.

    I'm really enjoying the service, and I appreciate all of the work and care that you're putting into it!

    Thank you so much!

Upcoming Experiences

Your person isn't on an app. Let's go find them.

Hiking will be posted within 2 weeks of the date year-round.
Expect a singles book club fall/winter 2026 -  If you’re interested in the book club please email me to be added to the email list.
If you are interested in collaborating on an event at your venue, please email me through the link below.
Let's Plan an Event!

Frequently Asked Questions

  • You'll hear from me by text or email to schedule your 60-minute onboarding call. Within about a week of our call, your member file will be created and shared with you.

  • There's no set number, and that's by design. I only introduce you when I find someone I genuinely believe fits. You'll never be flooded with matches to make the membership feel "active."

  • That's the whole point! You can pause or end your membership anytime, and you’re welcome to stay in the community and events.

  • Yes. Every membership can be paused and reinstated with no term limits.

  • Never. There's no pressure to participate in anything. Your comfort and your standards come first, always.

  • The community is rooted in the Finger Lakes region, Southern Tier, Northern PA, and Florida. The more of us there are, the deeper the pool. Tell your single friends.